Have you ever seen a family photo where everyone looks stiff and uncomfortable? Or how about the photo where everyone is awkwardly staring into the camera? This is not the goal of a family photographer and definitely not the result that a client wants to see.
So how do we avoid this blunder?
It's picture day and there's an excitement stirring. The kids are running around with unending energy. Mom is making sure everyone is dressed accordingly with hair nicely done. Dad is trying to keep the stress levels at a low while picking up any loose pieces before heading to location. And let's not forget mom and dad have to make sure they look good and coordinated all while keeping an eye on that clock so as not to be late, which will inevitably happen anyways.
As a photographer and a dad of 5, I know this scenario all too well. One of the most important keys for parents and photographers to remember is to just relax. Photo day doesn't always go as planned, and that's ok. Its natural.
As a photographer, I know the value of flexibility. Being flexible for the family involved is so helpful. They may be, or most likely will be, running late, and that's ok because I've already planned a bit of time into the session to allow for this. This also allows me to be calm and stress free when they show up to location. As the kids pour out of the family vehicle and parents start to apologize, I can quickly set them at ease letting them know everything is just fine. Starting out relaxed is key to getting those natural looking portraits everyone is expecting.
Next up, conversation. Keep the camera out of view as small talk pursues. Family photography includes building relationships, and this is the time to do it. Don't bombard the conversation with photo talk but ask about the kids, the day and set the tone for the rest of the session, which is about spending time together, capturing memories.
Laughing is important. Mom and dad might be hard to impress but I promise you kids are easy to make laugh. Have a few little jokes in your back pocket and be prepared to act silly. I can tell you from experience that mom and dad will be focused on the kids and if they see the kids enjoying the time, mom and dad will too.
During the actual photo shoot, you have to remember to keep the energy flowing. Those kids are taking in everything around them and eager to explore their new surroundings. Movement is key and this is what you want in your images. Generally, you want to be prepared with prompts to give in all situations. This is as simple as telling your family to walk while swinging arms or even to have a tickle fight. Static poses are stiff and awkward and will soon take their toll on an energetic group. Make sure to keep your subjects moving around.
Remember that photography is much more than snapping a few pics. Try your best to really connect with the people you have been blessed to spend that time with and be a part of the memory of picture day.
You can see the fun in a naturally candid photo of family that is relaxed. To see some that I have taken visit one of my online portfolios here. And as always, please like, follow and share.
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